Ani L’dodi V’dodi Li

July 2007: Me in Israel, at the top of Masada
This past week my fiancé Josh and I decided on the phrase we’ll be engraving into our wedding bands. I initially sent Josh a list of twenty various engraving ideas ranging from the beautiful- “Amor Vincit Omnia” (Latin for “Love conquers all”) to funny like “You’re Stuck With Me.” He quickly dismissed all the of ideas until he got to the last one. “I like it!” he exclaimed, and just like that our wedding theme was born.
I first discovered my love for the phrase “Ani L’dodi V’ dodi Li” (Hebrew from the Song of Solomon: I am My Beloved’s and My Beloved is Mine) while in Israel. I feel like it embodies us so well as a couple. It’s beautiful, it’s precise, and it’s perfect. My ring will have the first half (Ani L’Dodi) and his will have the second half (V’Lodi Li) – all in Hebrew. The jeweler was extremely receptive to our idea and he is currently working on our bands.
Then I starting thinking…
Why stop with the wedding bands? If we love this saying, we should incorporate it throughout our day! I contacted a woman whose company came highly recommended (Pink Design Events) and she is working on creating a personalized monogram for us. I envision the design incorporating our first names and wedding date, as well as “I am My Beloved’s and My Beloved is Mine.” The woman I am working with completely understands my vision and I look forward to seeing the end result.
The plan is to use our monogram in a variety of ways. I am thinking we could place it on our menus, programs, and seating chart. I haven’t quite thought that far ahead, but I know it will be an ongoing motif throughout our wedding. I couldn’t be happier to have a subtle theme, and Josh is thrilled we have one more thing checked off the wedding to-do list!

Age: 25
5 comments
Nice!
One of my friends is in art school, so we asked her to design us a monogram using out initials in Hebrew to use on our invitations and benchers.
Ooh that sounds beautiful. I never thought I was a monogram type gal – but this whole wedding thing is bringing out a new side to me! haha! :)
Lol me either, but my friend offered actually… so hey why not.
I love your wedding theme idea! In fact, I was going to have “I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine” written around my wedding cake (for various reasons we didn’t end up doing that) I bet you could also find a ketubah featuring the saying.
Thank you!!
… I found an amazing ketubah this weekend with the saying. It’s SO pretty.. I’m hoping Josh likes it :)
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